"It is what it is." If you think about it, this is a funny phrase. Because of course, it is what it is. What else could it be? But, anyway, most of the time you hear this phrase, it's someone trying to accept the way things are. To look at them without judgement.
I'm working on it. Right now, I'm working on accepting this crazy weather. Several things about the weather give me a tough time of accepting.
1-I do not like to be cold or wet, or cold & wet.
2-Driving in snow & ice scares me.
3-I really don't like having to shut down the studio, when there are people who want their yoga!
But it is what it is. There's not a thing I can do about it.
And I am remembering to be grateful. A couple of years ago, on one of our missions to Nicaragua, we helped to finish a home for a family. I've spoken about this family, and this home before, in our newsletter. But when it's muddy outside, my mind and heart always go to them.
This family was literally living in the mud. They had no way to get out of it. Their home had no floor, and really, no walls to speak of. Just sticks, loosely tied together. We were there during the rainy season, and it had been raining, like it is here, but for 3 weeks. The father, in an effort to keep his family dry, dug a ditch in front of the little home, to help redirect the water. But there was so much, that even inside the house looked like a puddle. One mom, one dad, and four beautiful little girls shared a space smaller than my office. They slept on pieces of cardboard, to try to get out of the mud. As you can imagine, it didn't help much.
There's a happy ending to this story. Our group was the last to work on their new home. And while this home had no floor, and in America, someone would store their lawn mower there, at least it was dry inside. And I will never forget the smiles.
So, tonight, when you go to your warm home, with a dry floor, a soft bed, running, hot water, and plenty of food to eat, please think of this family. These beautiful children. And be grateful for your blessings.